Tributes 3 – Ehisiemen Iyamu

Deaconess (DR.) MRS.
PATIENCE EHISIENMEN IYAMU
(OVBIE - EDOKPOLO)

1959 - 2024.

It has taken me an eternity to gather the strength to pen these words, as I still grapple with the reality that my cherished friend, confident and sister has departed from this world. In the depths of my being, I am engulfed by a profound sense of loss, and yet, amidst the sorrow, I find myself drawn to a sober reflection on the transient nature of life's vanity. I first crossed paths with Mrs. Patience Ehi Wilson Iyamu (nee Edokpolor), affectionately known as Iye Ewean, in 1996 - a staggering 28 years ago. Our encounter was when I sought out her exquisite kaftans. Little did I know that this chance meeting would blossom into an unbreakable bond, where the lines between friendship and sisterhood blurred into oblivion. Iye Ewean was not merely a friend; she was a luminary, a rare gem whose brilliance illuminated the darkest corners of our lives. Her character was a tapestry woven with threads of dedication, honesty, dependability, and humility. She toiled tirelessly, her hands etched with the imprints of hard work, her heart radiating with selflessness and devotion. Above all, she was a beacon of faith, her spirit tethered to the divine, guiding her every step with unwavering grace. The chasm left in her absence is unfathomable, and the warmth of her embrace. Her memory will linger eternally, a gentle whisper in the wind, a comforting presence in the depths of solitude. As I bid farewell to my dear friend and sister, I am consumed by emotions, yet amidst the anguish, I find solace in the belief that she has found peace in the embrace of her maker. To her bereaved family, especially her beloved children, I extend my heartfelt prayers, beseeching the heavens to grant them strength and solace in the wake of this huge loss. In the journey of life, we are but fleeting travelers, bound by the ephemeral threads of existence. Yet, in our hearts, we carry the promise of reunion, where we shall be reunited with our departed loved ones, never to part again. With tear-stained words and a heavy heart, I bid you farewell, dear Iye Ewean. May you rest eternally in the embrace of divine love, your spirit soaring amongst the stars. Forever in my thoughts, forever in my heart.

Prof. Lilian Imuetinyan Salami
VC University of Benin.

TRIBUTE TO A CHRISTIAN MOTHER WITH NOBLE DISPOSITION
Although I received the news of your demise with a heavy heart but i was consoled by the fact that you have finished your cause and completed the race set before you and this form the major reason why your Maker, Our Creator decided to approve your transition to the celestial abode of his saints in heaven. You lived an exemplary Christian Life enshrined in godly principles of God's kingdom. You replicated the sacrificial life of the biblical Dorcas who provided for the needs of many in her days. You were instrumental to the well-being of some Christian mothers to the extent that your numerous gifts to some of us will forever remain indelible in our memories. You were a loving wife to your beloved husband and a diligent mother to your children. You were a renowned counsellor, gentle, hospitable and reliable. You advocated and demonstrated the dignity in labour with godliness and contentment. You were among the very few women who laboured for the growth of the church to the extent that even in your sick bed, you never gave up on God. I am glad you reached the "finish line" with an excellent result and I know for sure that your reception in the celestial city will be unprecedented.
Rest in the Lord's bosom daughter of the most high.
It is well with your soul.

Rev Mrs Diana Uwadiae.

How do I begin writing a tribute for a God's vessel of compassion, benevolence and egalitarian humanity, who has left all of us in extreme shock of huge loss by her untimely transition to immortality? Sad as it is, we celebrate all that she represented and offered to those who were fortunate enough to have met her on her sojourn on Earth; her infectious humanity and her capacity to transmit her inner vivacity and glow to those around her, especially those of us who were extremely privileged to be her loved ones, was legendary. She was a doting mother in a million; and we shall sorely miss her physical presence; but we trust in her spiritual presence in the angelic realm to spread her wings of protection over us. It is our fervent prayer that she finds absolute favour in the sight of God our divine Creator. May her loving soul and the souls of all faithful departed, through the mercies of God, rest in peace, AMEN.

Miss Joyce Edokpolo

A TRIBUTE TO A WONDERFUL FRIEND AND SISTER

Words cannot express the depth of pain and sadness that engulfed my heart with the news of your demise. Drawings cannot paint the picture of what has happened even as we know and have come to acknowledge the fact that there is a time to be born and a time to die, a time to rejoice and a time to mourn, “Mummy ” as we fondly call you, little did we know that your time would come so soon. In life’s reality, death is a call each and every mortal is bound to obey. We believe that you are with our Creator.

Hmmmmmmmmmm.
How do I begin to let the world know who you are in my mind’s eye?
You were kindness personified, an embodiment of kindness itself!
You were selfless in all things as you always put others first before yourself!
Whenever I needed help and support, you were always there, unwavering and steadfast like a pillar!
Your caring for me and my family was like a mother’s love, undying, even though we did not share the same blood.
In fact, as I reflect on the countless memories of you, I thank God for having had you in my life. You made so much impact in my life, leaving indelible marks in my heart.
Though you are no longer physically present, your legacies of kindness, forthrightness, and selflessness live on.
I am forever blessed to have had you as a great friend and sister.
Thank you for showering your unconditional love on my friends. You will forever hold a special place in our hearts.
To live in the hearts of those you love and cherish is not to die.
Sleep on dearest friend and sister till resurrection morning where we will meet to part no more.
Adieu! Adieu!! Adieu!!!

Mrs Enore Eheri (Berachah)

In loving memory of my dear aunty, sister, and friend. Your presence illuminated our lives with warmth, kindness, and laughter. You were a pillar of strength, offering guidance and unwavering support through life’s challenges. Your compassion knew no bounds, touching the hearts of all who knew you. As a sister, you shared in our joys and sorrows, lending a listening ear and a comforting embrace. As a friend, your loyalty and sincerity enriched our bond, creating memories to cherish forever. Though you may be gone, your spirit lives on in the love and fond memories we hold dear. Rest peacefully, beloved aunty, sister, and friend. From Mrs A. B Eweka

From Mrs A. B Eweka

My tribute to Iye A mother, a friend and a confidant to me. It is very hard for me to believe you are no more with us . Since the very day I met you, you took me as your child, you make me feel important, you make me feel valued, you loved me and my children, you care for us, you always make me happy. Iye, you were one in a million. So many things around me remind me of you, but who are we to question God . We thank God for the live you leaved here on earth. Continue to rest in the lord until the resurrection day.

Omoruyi Margaret

A Tribute to a Woman of immense Generosity , Laughter and Joy In the tapestry of our lives, there are threads of love and laughter woven by those who leave an indelible mark on our hearts. Today, we stand to celebrate the life of Deaconess (Dr.) Mrs. Patience Iyamu a.k.a. MamiNosky ( as I fondly called her) —a woman whose generosity knew no bounds and whose laughter echoed like music in our souls. MamiNosky was more than just an aunt; she was a mother , a beacon of light, a source of joy, a strong pillar of strength and source of empowerment for all who knew her. Her generosity knew no limits, and her kindness touched countless lives, leaving a legacy of love and compassion that will endure for generations to come. With a heart as big as the sky and a smile that could brighten the darkest of days, MamiNosky brought warmth and laughter wherever she went. Her quick wit and infectious laughter were a constant reminder that life is meant to be lived fully and joyfully, regardless of the challenges we may face. In her words, money is meant to "check insults".. But beyond her humor and laughter, MamiNosky possessed a deep well of compassion and empathy for those in need. Whether it was offering a helping hand to a friend, neighbour, relative, fellow business partner in need or opening her home to those without a place to stay, she lived out the true essence of generosity and selflessness. She was a mover and shaker! Or as we say in our local parlance "na she dey run things that year" MamiNosky's legacy of love and laughter will forever live on in the hearts of all who knew her. Though she may no longer be with us in body, her spirit continues to shine brightly, illuminating our lives with memories of her kindness, laughter, and unwavering love. As we bid farewell to MamiNosky, let us take comfort in knowing that she has left behind a legacy of love that will continue to inspire and uplift us for years to come. May her generous spirit and infectious laughter live on in our hearts forever, reminding us to embrace life with joy, kindness, and boundless love. Rest in peace, dear MamiNosky. Your love, laughter, and legacy will forever be cherished and remembered.You will be sorely missed

Your Eldest Niece - Amb. Lilian 'Kemi' Ajayi (Esq) J.P.

Tribute to my dear friend Mrs Patience Iyamu, I still can’t believe you are gone…. New Benin seems emptier without your infectious laughter and jokes.

A thousand pages of tribute won’t be enough to express my deepest feelings nor to describe the person that you were to me. You were brave, industrious, funny, and always there for anyone who needed your support. Your generous heart, your deep insight, and wisdom will stay with us always. Your courage and strength stood as an example to all. Your legacy will live on in our hearts. I am deeply saddened by your passing, but I am grateful for the time we had together. You will always be remembered for your service to friendship, and your spirit of kindness will never be forgotten. You were an inspiration and a role model to many. You will be greatly missed.

Your life was a blessing. Your memory will remain in my heart. Adieu, my friend

From Mrs Helen Eberemu.

Mama you were an epitome of love, hardwork and perseverance which made you attained those successes during your lifetime. We will surely miss your presence
Even though missing you will hurt, we will always think of you with joy because of the light you brought to us all.
Adieu Iye

A mother with a difference.
A mother that gives a listen ear She was a rare gen, a loving and caring mom who hate to see anyone close to her with tears. She always want to share from others problem so as to give solutions. How can l forget the last day l came to see you ( 1st of January 2024) if only l knew its going to be the last time l could have stay for so long.well God knows best. Chaiiiii death you are wicked.
Mom, may you continue to find eternal rest in Jesus name.
Amen.

You were a great being, generous, loving, cheerful and close to God so am rest assured you are with the Lord, sleep on great woman.

Mummy you are indeed a true mother, your love ❤️ is invaluable your care is priceless. We missed you so dearly ma'am.
Do rest in the bosom of our Lord.

A mother to my friend Adesuwa. I got to meet you a couple of times at the shop and for all the times we met, mama was always welcoming and happy. She always had a smile on her face. Mama is someone who stood by her children till the last. Thank you for being an amazing mum, grandma and a mother to all. I remember how you assisted us in our Alumni (CCA) end of year food contribution, helping us buy the things and sharing them. We love you.
Rest in peace ma.

My lovely and sweet mum, hmmmmm u were a blessing to everyone of us 😍 you have touch so many life in different ways I really miss u so much mummy .there is never a dull moment with you indeed you are replaceable I love and really miss u more dear mum.

You were a rare gem, loving, supportive, giver and a lover of God, you will forever be missed. Eternal rest grant unto you mummy and may God's perpetual light continue to shine on you 🙏

Mummy was a self made woman who stood like a pillar for us, despite I was not her biological child. Sometimes, it's pains me that. Life seems not to be fair to you, for how could u raise us up, and to rip the fruits of ur labour, you are gone. I will always remember ur words of advice ,ur hospitality, and the good time we shared. You were a mother among mothers, greatly, we will miss u mummy, continue to rest in perfect peace.

The righteous shall be in everlasting remembrance. You were so kind and generous to everyone around you even those you did not know. You were great example of a Liberal soul. You humbled yourself to help the helpless fulfilling the words of our Lord Jesus Christ which say "give to those that ask you and turn not away those that want to borrow from you."
Thank you Mama and God continue to bless your family in Jesus Mighty Name...Amen

In honor of her indomitable spirit, we celebrate a woman whose resilience knows no bounds. With grace and determination, she navigates life's challenges, inspiring all who cross her path. Her strength is unwavering, a beacon of hope and empowerment. Here's to the embodiment of courage and perseverance.
Rest in peace Mama

Words cannot express your good heart towards others while you are on earth but we cant question God why he had to take you away, all we can do now is to continue to pray for your soul. May your soul and the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace. Amen.

Rip mummy!
We love u but God love u most. Continue to dwell in d kingdom of d savior where we shall meet and part no more

Had stories about how kind you were - Sad you had to go! But we are comforted because we know you're in a better place.

An embodiment of love. A mother of all. My deepest condolences to the family because I am well aware of the quantity of your loss... I am proud to say I knew her when she was alive. It's sad that I didn't get to fulfill any of my promises to her... I will never forget you Iye. You were a mother to me even when you knew almost nothing about me. You fed me, cared for me like I was a product of your womb and for that I am forever grateful. You live on in our hearts, your smile is vivid in our minds and your love is felt even in death. I love you Iye and it's a shame I didnt get to tell you that.
Rest on Mama

Mama was a beacon of love and kindness to everyone she knew. Her warmth and generosity knew no bounds, leaving an enduring mark on my life. May your memory be a guiding light, inspiring us to cherish each moment and spread kindness wherever we go.
Adieu Mama

A lovely mom, though I don't know you, but am seeing a good mother in your son , A nice man Roncy. May your soul rest in peace

I may not have known you but knowing your daughter define how good you were to people before leaving the world. I pray may the good Lord accept your soul.
Amen.

Iye Nosa, my mother.
You have lived a beautiful life filled with love which u radiated to everyone who had the opportunity to meet you. I will always love you and remember you now and always until we meet again. Thank you for always being there.

You will be greatly missed mama. You were indeed a great mum. You treated everyone like yours.
Rest well mama.

May her soul rest in peace, you were a great woman of God with a kind heart and lovely personality🙏🙏 you will be greatly missed by all

THOUGH THE NEWS OF YOUR PASSING WAS ONE OF THE MOST DEVASTATING NEWS. WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR THE AMAZING LOVE AND GENEROSITY YOU SHOWN US WHILE YOU WERE WITH US. YOUR MEMORY WHICH NO ONE CAN ERASE WILL FOREVER BE EMBEDDED IN OUR HEART.
REST IN PEACE IYE.

She was well-loved by everyone who knew her. She was full of love and caring. You will surely be missed. Rest on mama.

Dear Auntie..... It hurts to know that you are actually gone. You were one of my favorite Aunt. You always fought for the truth at all times. I loved your simplicity and kindness. We really can't question our maker. Rest on Auntie. May your soul continue to rest in the bosom of the lord. Amen

The loss of a mother is very difficult to bear, especially when she is an anchor holding everyone strong. She was also like a second mother to all. Her warm embrace, wise advice, and unconditional love will be deeply missed. Saying goodbye to her has been one of the hardest things to do. Mummy was brave: she overcame whatever life threw her way; she was loved by all and had a positive impact on lives. She will forever be missed. Rest on till we meet to part no more.

Mummy was a Legend of sorts as she stood as a pillar of strength and grit all through her life in trying time. Mummy lived a life of kindness and grace, leaving behind cherished memories full a hearts full of love. Her love knew no bounds and her spirit never faded. Rest in peace, dear Mummy, your legacy lives on forever. We will forever missed you.😭💔

What a precious soul she was. Very appreciative. Very kind. Very generous. One of a kind. Sleep well. Your remembrance remains blessed.

Family and friends, as we come together to honor the life of my dear Aunt/inlaw (Mrs. Ehisiemen Iyamu nee Edokpolor), I am filled with a mixture of sadness and gratitude. Sadness for the loss of a woman who meant so much to me, and gratitude for the time I had with her, the wisdom she shared, and the unconditional love she gave. No more tomorrows we can share but yesterdays are always there . Rest till we meet to path no more.

Yours was an exemplary life, led with love, humility and kindness. You are indeed one of a kind. Your giving lifestyle cannot not be compared. You make those who come in contact with better than they were before they met you. You are indeed a woman of substance. You were a mum to all of us. We will miss you everyday. But we take solace in the fact that you have gone to be with the Lord. Sleep on the best mum ever! Your memory will forever be sweet in our hearts. Adieu, great woman.

You were indeed a mother with the biggest heart...Ever accommodating,cheerful, hospitable and much more...Miss you so much iyenogie

Mama Nosa, as you're mostly called. What you did for me will always be unforgettable. God used you to make me what I am today. Your kindness to humanity, your time dedicated to people. Your respect, humility and all the good things will always remain with me. It will take me a lifetime to write my tributes about you. If tears will bring you back, I know all the tears sheared just for you would have brought you back. But who are we to ask God WHY. My dear, continue to rest in peace until we meet again 🙏❤❤❤ 😂😂😂😂

Mama Iyamu as you were fondly called, a rare gem, a woman with a heart of gold , a humble,charitable and hospitable mother. Though your call to glory came as a rude shock but our Heavenly Father knows best and no one can question him. Continue to rest in God's bossom ma. I will always miss you.

Iye no gie, your exit is a great loss but to heaven is a great gain. I give God the glory for your children and grand children left behind. Indeed, they will continue to keep the flag of your good works flying high with the hearts of kindness you have transferred to them. May almighty God comfort us all and may your soul continue to rest in perfect peace; Amen!!!!

A Faithful friend, a Loyal friend, a True friend, a Kind friend, a friend in need and a friend in deed. Very Generous and always extending a helping hand. You were one of a Kind. A Jewel of Inestimable Value. I miss your gentle smile. You have fought a good fight and finished your race, now take your well deserved rest in the bossom of the LORD. Adieu my Black Beauty.

Mrs Patience (Mummy). I was blessed to spend some time with you. You always wore a beautiful smile that cannot be resisted. You were always encouraging me. You are truly a child of God full of grace. Your presence is light and you an inspirational mother, grandma, wife. I thank God for your life and the legacy you left behind to follow. An Example of simplicity and beauty in excellence. I encourage the Children, grandchildren. I want you to know a woman of grace lived her life and run her journey in the Lord. May you also continue in the ways of the Lord. God bless you my sweet Sister Ewaen. The Lord will continue to strengthen, comfort you and the family.
Thank you for making me a part of your family. Lots of love ❤
Christine

I was shocked, when i heard that Mama passed away. Mama was a very nice and generous person . I remember that she gave all the women in RCCG Salvation Theatre Birmingham UK, head gear free of Charge. I pray that the Lord will comfort and uphold the whole Family

Tribute to my Aunty.
As I put down these few words to your memory, I feel such a great sense of loss and grief. Words alone cannot adequately express how I beheld you and what your passing means to me.you were more than an aunty to me. You were a gift from heaven above. If I were to describe you in one word, I would say "kindness". You were truly an inspiration to me. Thank God for the exemplary life you lived.
Rest in peace,Mama Nosa. Juliet Anogie.

She was a MOTHER. Mum that stays with her children when going is good or bad. When child needs a shoulder to lean on. She's there. Full of support, assistance and encouragement keeps you moving and not looking back. So humble.
May her gentle soul RIPP. 🙏🙏🙏 We love you mama; but God loves you more. Sun Re o

I'm thankful because even in your pain, you never failed to brighten up Our day. Thank you for the enthusiasm you brought with you every day. For sure, you left your mark in this crazy-crazy world.
Your memory forever lingers On Big Mummy "PEOPLE MAMA " IYENOGIE !

A TRIBUTE TO A SELFLESS SWEET LADY.
I got to know Mrs Patience Iyamu in the course of carrying out my professional duties. Not long after, I came to the realisation that the fact that our paths crossed was God-ordained. She became a friend, a reliable and kind-hearted one at that. She was a strong and hardworking lady who cared for others more than herself. She sure obeyed God's tenet of Jesus first, yourself last and others in between. Though older than her, I learnt a lot from Mrs Patience Iyamu. She gave of herself, her resources to others without expecting a reward or payback. Her giving and compassionate spirit were unequalled. She was, indeed, a rare gem. I sore miss her but I am consoled that she is in a better place where there is no pain, no sorrow, no crying. Rest in peace.

Iye ni iye
Iye no gie
Mama iyamu like we all call her,iye was sweet,amazing,loving,a giver to the core,iye will always give me cash for my p.o.s business,iye will patronise me and buy all my airtime,she went as far as feeling bad whenever am not on duty and she brought cash for me! iye was intentional about other people. I remember she our last discussion I quote her "Becky this year u must come my birthday, u never come once" and I promised to her I was gonna be live! mama iyamu! I didn't get to celebrate that big day with you! mama iyamu has made me had Ankara of different design! you have a place in my heart.

Deaconess (DR.) MRS.PATIENCE EHISIENMEN IYAMU(OVBIE - EDOKPOLO)

1959 - 2024.

A TRIBUTE TO A WONDERFUL FRIEND AND SISTER

From Mrs A. B Eweka

From Mrs Helen Eberemu.

Deaconess (DR.) MRS.
PATIENCE EHISIENMEN IYAMU
(OVBIE - EDOKPOLO)